The end of the second of three long days: long, at least, by my current standards – I have become, over the past very quiet year, rather unaccustomed to following other people's schedules, so three or four days of appointments, meetings, classes, seems like a great deal.
Very tired, thus: fairly winded. Didn't have a beer after the research seminar, just a low-alcohol ginger beer, but still sleepy and relaxed.
And even more relaxed from the lovely craic with Annie, my Irish postgraduate student; we giggle, tell stories and make jokes so fast they pile one on top of another. She wanted to borrow my CDs of the Great Lesbian Singers of the 1970s/80s, Cris Williamson and Meg Christian; I played her my favorite Meg Christian (Meg's not as fine a musician as Cris, but had a couple of good hits), 'The Rock Will Wear Away', which despite its sentimentality always leaves me teary-eyed; and what I think is a funnier song, 'Ode to a Gym Teacher.' Annie did think the latter predictably, and touchingly, hilarious.
The next track, for some reason, was something so utterly seventies... such a burst of exactly the right sound, it took me back, to when I was seventeen, eighteen, nineteen. It's real time travel, when you're tired or relaxed, and something that highly charged takes you back – I find myself, unexpectedly but very realistically, in an earlier body, for just a moment – when I was eighteen and excited by everything, and cute, and very, so very...
oh my. So far back now. Far back enough that going through that much time is a strain, it pulls at you.
Some of the same emotions must be floating around the gay community, as the film Milk opens this weekend.
I don't know how easy it will be to see that film... and the hard thing about going back that far is that we don't get to stay there. (Tangential query: why do the right-wingers not have any assassinated heroes? Is it because the left isn't as likely to kill people?)
After I was deported from Australia from being HIV+, and broken-hearted about place, time, and loss, I would talk to people about how I loved San Francisco, and Sydney, and other different places; and they would say, okay, so where do you want to live?
And I would say, San Francisco, but in 1976. And you can't get those plane tickets any more.
It was a joke: but a joke on me, it seems, now....