After a startlingly busy week, about half oriented towards other peoples' needs (although I was supposed to start research leave a week ago, of course some people did not keep up with normal schedules and requests to help me do so; especially exasperating, given how much of my own past month has been oriented towards handling the problems that others had or irresponsibly caused), and about half towards my own career ambitions; and with one perfectly awful day when, enraged by someone else's foolishness, I said something pointlessly cruel to a junior colleague – something I regret but can't take back; I have ground to a halt amid the quiet of enforced isolation from students, colleagues, department. The blessings of research leave: and the strangeness of it.
Increasingly over the past few days, though, I think about what there is to do that matters: essentially, though this is mostly detached from the more depressive mood I was working through last fall, I am once again struggling with The Point Of It All.
Sure, obviously: quasi-midlife stuff (can you still claim to be mid-life at 51?), your common or garden existential semi-crisis, or just the obtuse avoidance of the obvious projects in front of me; and I suppose a natural reaction to all that sudden quiet: not only, what should I do now?, but, what would there be some point in doing now? That is to say, what should I be doing now, that won't make me think on my deathbed (now probably decades away, AIDS or not): what a silly waste of time that was?
Of course, you should feel free to go click on something else on the Internet; but I'm going to write this out, if only for my own sake....
Rejections
So: the things that are, in one way or another, not important enough to satisfy me, at least at this jaded moment.
Art, entertainment, writing, talking: pleasant; interesting and amusing, sometimes with the illusion (and rarely but occasionally with the actuality) of resonating with some manner of deeper truths. But ultimately, these are literally pastimes: ways of spending hours, ways of getting from one point in time to another. Creativity, even if it can disentangle itself from markets, egotism, and fretting over such things as originality, style, success, is amusing enough; but ultimately just sort of a very high-level version of navel-gazing. And of course the rather silly choice of being an academic specializing in analyzing or discussing the arts (such as being a musicologist) is merely a once-removed version of passing time.
Science, knowledge, pushing the boundaries of technology? Interesting, somewhat; these days one is generally part of a research team, a cog in a machine, and of course many of those machines are used for dubious or spectral purposes. The bounds of knowledge: usually really only an egotistical goal, as one is pushing the bounds of one's own knowledge – so an elaborate version of reading textbooks, if one can define heretofore unknown parts of the universe as textbooks. (And wouldn't that make McGraw-Hill happy.)
Having children, educating and furthering the needs of the young: just really a way of continuing the selfish gene; this is merely making sure that the Great Wheel keeps turning, through supplying it with plenty of fodder. Yeah, sure, what a miracle to have children, how difficult, how complex: of course let's face it, most people botch it, at least mildly; but ultimately, whether done well or clumsily, this is just about continuation, not about actually going somewhere in life or existence. Worst of all, in fact, when one justifies a pointless existence by making more human beings in the hope that they will have less pointless ones: merely a sort of deflection of questions of meaning, not a solution to them.
Being a doctor or lawyer or police-person, saving lives, preventing suffering, guarding the weak: perfectly good stuff, actually quite noble and respectable (except for a bunch of the lawyers), perfectly fine. But also merely another way of keeping the wheel going, of putting people back into good working order; so that they can – well, what? So that they can just go on pottering along, doing nothing important, repeating their daily rounds? Doing these things is evidence of kindness and fellow-feeling, which are perfectly okay; but this is just a kind of maintenance, a more ambitious version of the need to vacuum, pick trash off the sidewalk, do laundry.
And building great buildings, clearing forests, saving species, funding orphanages? More maintenance, in one direction or another; illusion or maintenance, we are all either vaudeville magicians or janitors, every one.
I don't mean to imitate Leopardi or Pascal here; it's not that any of these life goals or activities are useless or pathetic, and I don't think that people are disgusting maggots on the surface of, etc. etc. People are perfectly okay, and the fact that most of them seem to be largely engaged in making more people, or in making life easier for people, are also acceptable things; but they're not ultimately very interesting things. They all seem to end up in a cycle of repetition: everything ends up as Maya, as illusion; as pictures on the wall in that damned Greek cave.
All right, this is just standard Buddhist existentialism, of the kind discovered with a shock by moody adolescents; perhaps I should simply go meditate somewhere. But although over the years I've read a great deal of Buddhism (and of course there are ideas and texts from Hinduism, Taoism, and even the monotheistic religions – not to mention any of the metaphysical philosophies – that intend to help out here), all those answers feel, at this moment, too totalizing, too institutional, too ideological: follow me and we'll found a church, or a school, or a system, and then we can hang around arguing about the details of our existential problems, which simply becomes a more elaborate way to avoid doing anything about them.
But perhaps you are bored, if of course you're still reading, by this rather obvious stuff.... do you think perhaps I'm concerned about all this, merely because over the last year or so it's become clear that I'll be relatively healthy for years to come? Because early death from AIDS won't save me from deciding what it all means – because I won't be able to smarmily claim that, had I only lived long enough, I would have Figured It All Out?...
Night, books, fortune-telling
Feeling all of this especially acutely last night, I had a (rare for me) glass of wine – a large glass; became oddly weak but relaxed afterwards. I know that my reaction to alcohol is heightened over the past year (is this one of the medications, or just aging weakness perhaps?). And, resolving to move further into the problem, I pullled out the I Ching. (You may only make fun of this if you have a better idea – ha, didn't think you did.)
So, what did I get?... hexagram 44, with no changing lines (unusual; what's the statistical chance of no changing lines? – out of six rolls, a one out of four chance of 6 or 9, so three-quarters times... no, I've forgotten all my probability studies; but low-ish in any case). A slightly alarming result: a subtly dark hexagram, with nothing out beyond it, no exceptions or doorways out through changing lines and a further hexagram – which makes it almost like a short-term trap, as though I should be careful of something but it won't tell me what.
This made me frankly, and oddly, fearful: as though I had to do something, now; as though the existential crisis was more than a mere Denkexperiment, as though it was a real crisis that needed attention, now, like a man hanging over the side of a cliff. I wandered among my bookshelves, looking for some sort of help: not the shelves of literature, or of religion, or psychology – but the ones on philosophy, on culture; and then, frustrated, I dug through the poetry as a sort of last resort.
Of course you will immediately see the problem: modern philosophy doesn't do answers, doesn't do metaphysics. And older metaphysicians don't seem terribly useful, at least not to me, not now – their worlds are so alien, so unreal, that the great works of classical philosophy seem merely like charming antiques at best. I ended up, strangely, with three disparate and frankly mostly unhelpful books:
Elaine Scarry, Dreaming By the Book. New to my shelves in the past week; I don't know much of Scarry, though her name has gone past me a lot lately, but I do feel a certain trust for her point of view (as I do that of Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick, or Annie Dillard). But this is really a book on writing and how it makes meaning; therefore, in my current state, quite useless, as it merely extends meaning by connecting it to more pleasant and interesting illusions.
Lee Edelman, No Future: Queer Theory and the Death Drive. Well, all right: in comparison to most of my twentieth-century philosophy, post-structuralism, cultural studies, this is a book that does indeed take on some of the problems that are bothering me – but obviously from the wrong direction: this is a sort of celebratory nihilism, about gay men and women deciding not to care about the impossibility of connecting to a world of making and educating children. Besides, it ends up being too Zizekian; and given the current intellectual climate around me, that makes it automatically feel too annoying and dispiriting and dogmatic.
The only partial success was one of my favorite books on all my shelves, a peculiar contribution from poetry: John Ashbery's Three Poems, his extraordinarily beautiful and semi-incomprehensible vast stretch of prose in three parts (over a hundred pages), that really consists of musing on reality and his place in it (he was 45 at the time).
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And so I've been reading Ashbery today: I'm not sure that it helps; but it doesn't throw me back into dull patterns, into illusions, into Maya. It doesn't, in fact, offer any answers – but at least the questions are of a high quality, and unlike most of the ones available in daily life, they might be worth considering. And that, at least, is something....